Family meetings beyond family meetings

This baptist church mixed with our family does not go. They're weird to the max. Anyway-Sunday's family meeting on Grandpa's funeral was lame. Johnny got upset and almost cried. Everyone was talking over everyone. Nothing really got accomplished. Thus, with all the overwhelming emails today, I then take a deep breath and again think to myself, I will not argue with anyone over this. It's not worth it. I'm going with the flow and whatever goes, goes. Regardless of how we do it, outsiders will always have something to say. Am I right? So we do it the best we can and that's all that matters.